Star, That does seem depressing and depressed. From the whenever it was like this inside my house.

You think itaˆ™s far too late for us since he’s got already been moved away for too long?

Hi Laura, I never acted like hwas mother. My problem is I donaˆ™t know how to let things go. Weaˆ™ve been together for 6 years. The first year when I was a bigger girl it was great. Then things changed. He told me heaˆ™s always preferred skinny girls and that I wasnaˆ™t thin enough after loosing some weight. He pretty much compared me to all the thin girls in our lives including my sister. He said he chose me because he thought i was cute and nice but not because he liked my body. We fought so much after the years because of this. Although hes tried not to talk about it, till these days he still said Iaˆ™m so much bigger than other girls when I wear a size 2 dress and them 0. It hurts me so much that I canaˆ™t stand looking at him sometimes. Heaˆ™s done so much for me and heaˆ™s a wonderful man in many ways and I have no doubt that he loves me, but at the same time I canaˆ™t get over how he sees me and I just canaˆ™t even be intimate with him. Iaˆ™ve thought so many times of leaving and being by myself but I still love him. He keeps saying weaˆ™ll seek professional help but itaˆ™s all empty because he doesnaˆ™t believe in that. I just donaˆ™t know what to do anymore. Iaˆ™m just so frustrated and resentful towards him. How can I fix this hole inside me

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My date (& father of my daughter) informed me he wasnaˆ™t keen on me personally any longer because aˆ?Iaˆ™ve permit myself personally go.aˆ? Becoming a mother, caring for the house, operating and attending college has brought a toll on me. I’m currently the heaviest Iaˆ™ve ever started. (once we came across I became in amazing shape and aˆ?had they going onaˆ? *LOL* everytime I commence to tell him of all of the functions I actually need in daily life, the guy begins to let me know they are reasons and tells me to place myself within his area. I enjoy him really, I love our family, but sometimes I inquire myself our commitment are beginning to harmed due to how much cash Iaˆ™ve changed (actually, largely). After all I have it, all husbands need their unique wives to look fantastic. I just feel just like he needs me to resemble used to do whenever I was actually 21 before kids and LIVES. haha Iaˆ™ve started initially to go to the gymaˆ¦ slow improvements but Iaˆ™m finally making it on a daily basis. He cheers me on and informs me heaˆ™s happier about itaˆ¦ but I donaˆ™t get that experience. Itaˆ™s intimidating therefore all hurts my feelings aswell.